The shocking truth about Love.

The shocking truth about Love by Magicthreadworks

It is strange that you think that someone can make you feel loved. You are the one who controls your own feelings and your reactions to others. If this is something that you control, then the point of origin of love, or being loved also lies with you.

You have this immense capacity to love. Why are you waiting for someone else to love you first and only then you will relay it to them. Why are you looking for any reciprocation for your love. Start giving without expectations. Revel in your own love.

As charity begins from home, so first love yourself, immensely. Look after your own needs and see your heart is full. Do things for yourself which you want others to do for you. Why wait ?

Then fill cups of people close to you, your family, your partner and kids, your friends, people you work with and then you wider the circle further.

I am not promoting unrequited love here but asking you to flood your current relations with love first. Take the case of your partner whom you begrudging for lack of love or support. They might be taking care of you day in, day out in their own way. As their way is not the way in which you are expecting to be love, you feel this unfair loneliness lurking around.

Expectations always kill a relationship hence it is important to kill expectations first. You be the love and go to all the lengths required to manifest your love. You have still not explored your capacity to love and trust me it is immense. Love your partner, not because you want to make them happy or make them feel loved but because you want to revel in the immense love you have inside of you and you want to explore the depths of it. You might argue that it will be a selfish act, then my friend every act of ours is selfish whether we agree to it or not.

You may say if you do a loving act for a stranger that will be a far greater act of love. That will be a great act of love indeed. Do you think how fair you could be in loving a stranger where your bonds are weakest if you are not spreading love in your closest bonds at full capacity.

It will also require a lot of healing, several difficult conversations with oneself and with others, and eventual closure.

Just knowing that you love someone is not enough, you need to manifest its actual action while increasing potency. It’s your intensity which is feeling the love you feel. If we have a growth mindset, then why don’t we work on growing our love? How we can take that for granted. Why don’t we start investing in growing love.

Embody the love itself. Become a lover and you will be loved.